Our Differences ARE Our Similarities…
Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008
Every day the broadcast news is filled with more hatred, more violence…The innocent being killed, the guilty becoming hardened, angry, empty and lost…
Yet, I propose that it is fear of our similarities that make us feel “different” than the other; likewise it is our differences that can reveal our similarity, and in doing so can bring us healing, wholeness, happiness and life, and cause us to want others to have the same.
Our Beloved Guru Nanak Dev Ji exlaimed “There are no Hindus, there are no Muslims, there is but the parenthood of God and the universal brotherhood of mankind” (my paraphrase). Waheguru created us, black, brown, white (”flesh” colored), red, yellow and every shade in between. By His command, are we born Indian, American, Asian, African, European etc…again, by His command we find ourselves raised in a Christian culture, Jewish culture, Muslim, Hindu, Sikh, Buddhist, Jain, Zoroastrian, etc…
Growing up disabled, I always found myself comparing myself and being compared to others…and falling short of their expectations. I will never forget the day a dear one said to me:
“This world is like a grande orchestra….there are kettle drums, flutes, french horns, trumpets, violins, etc…and while each of these alone can at times sound odd or even off, annoying, “out of place,” if one of these were to drop out of that orchestra then the entire musical company sounds out of place…Some of us are a flute, some a violin, some, like yourself a tuba, but we all have our own unique part to play in the orchestra of Life.”
While it took me many, many years to truly grasp what she was trying to tell me, I’ve carried this with me all my 45 years…and continued to reflect upon it’s implications.
If we are to save this planet from our abuse and destruction, we must save ourselves first. We may play a violin, they might play the oboe or French horn…and we may not even like oboes or French horns, we think they sound awful, they drone, etc…yet we are incomplete without them. The constant barage of media tells us that we individuals are the most important thing, that our needs, desires, likes and dislikes come first…not only that, but we want them right now!
Do we ever take into consideration, that if we all “want it all, right now” that there mightn’t be enough to go ’round? Food and water are becoming extreme and immediate needs for more people on the planet than ever before in history. Is this because there isn’t enough to go around? NO, it is because the few hoard and waste…governments and corporations enjoying extreme wealth, such like a pig rolling in its own feces, all the while knowing and even counting on this great need continually increasing.
I believe that if we recognize other’s differences, we will find that they are not altogether dissimilar to our own…that in fact they are the thing that ties us together. We are a children of the one Parent…May we never forget this.
~daas
